Comments for This Mama's Dharma http://mamadharma.net one single mother. one spririted preschooler. oy -- what a life. Tue, 07 Feb 2012 09:38:50 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6 Comment on Would you date a single mom with a big-ass tattoo? by matthew c http://mamadharma.net/2010/09/would-you-date-a-single-mom-with-a-big-ass-tattoo/#comment-1571 matthew c Thu, 20 Oct 2011 01:18:10 +0000 http://mamadharma.net/?p=754#comment-1571 I highly commend you on your 8 months of non dating. It gives you time to reflect on what is truely important to you. Especially what you are looking for in life and a partner. Having a tattoo should not matter if the guy truely likes you. He should be able to look past that if he is the right guy! I highly commend you on your 8 months of non dating. It gives you time to reflect on what is truely important to you. Especially what you are looking for in life and a partner. Having a tattoo should not matter if the guy truely likes you. He should be able to look past that if he is the right guy!

]]> Comment on Ex Sister-in-Law by Aero http://mamadharma.net/2010/09/ex-sister-in-law/#comment-1558 Aero Sat, 24 Sep 2011 16:34:36 +0000 http://mamadharma.net/?p=771#comment-1558 I read through your blog. Seems interesting, because you always seem to question about not finding true love. The answer I guess is that you are not looking ! Because thats how it is. No one is looking for love. Everyone just looks for tall, dark/white, handsome. Be it single mothers or whatever, all the girls just want looks. No one even thinks that this body is temporary and the soul is what remains. Only the soul can feel and love. Not the body. So stop trying to evaluate the soul on the basis of body and you will surely find true love. I read through your blog. Seems interesting, because you always seem to question about not finding true love. The answer I guess is that you are not looking ! Because thats how it is. No one is looking for love. Everyone just looks for tall, dark/white, handsome. Be it single mothers or whatever, all the girls just want looks. No one even thinks that this body is temporary and the soul is what remains. Only the soul can feel and love. Not the body. So stop trying to evaluate the soul on the basis of body and you will surely find true love.

]]> Comment on Revisiting “I HATE Married People” by Steph http://mamadharma.net/2011/01/revisiting-i-hate-married-people/#comment-1557 Steph Fri, 16 Sep 2011 04:02:35 +0000 http://mamadharma.net/?p=789#comment-1557 This is nice and all, but I still hate married people. This is nice and all, but I still hate married people.

]]> Comment on I HATE married people. by Nino http://mamadharma.net/2009/07/i-hate-married-people/#comment-1555 Nino Sat, 10 Sep 2011 05:20:50 +0000 http://mamadharma.net/?p=639#comment-1555 MArriage is not all its cut out to be.. my wife doesnt work, hardly does the chores, doesnt cook, shes argumentative.. the sex is literally non existent and boring to an extent where I actually dont want to have sex.. the idea of having sex with her actually stresses me out even though she says she wants it all the time... I have to work all day then come home and work some more preparing food and doing chores.. If someone would have showed me a sneak peak of what married life was going to be I would have never done it... I was infinitely happy when I was single so count your blessings on being single... MArriage is not all its cut out to be.. my wife doesnt work, hardly does the chores, doesnt cook, shes argumentative.. the sex is literally non existent and boring to an extent where I actually dont want to have sex.. the idea of having sex with her actually stresses me out even though she says she wants it all the time… I have to work all day then come home and work some more preparing food and doing chores.. If someone would have showed me a sneak peak of what married life was going to be I would have never done it… I was infinitely happy when I was single so count your blessings on being single…

]]> Comment on Fever…and loss. by Trudy http://mamadharma.net/2007/05/feverand-loss/#comment-1554 Trudy Sat, 30 Jul 2011 13:07:49 +0000 http://mamadharma.net/2007/05/feverand-loss/#comment-1554 I can arealdy tell that's gonna be super helpful. I can arealdy tell that’s gonna be super helpful.

]]> Comment on I HATE married people. by doesitreallymatter http://mamadharma.net/2009/07/i-hate-married-people/#comment-1553 doesitreallymatter Thu, 28 Jul 2011 14:32:15 +0000 http://mamadharma.net/?p=639#comment-1553 I completely understand because I'm here searching for hating married people. I'm a single mom who is in her mid 20s beautiful but yet I am single. He says he isn't ready for marriage and that's been almost 2 yrs ago. Now there's word that his lil sister is getting married after dating this guy for 2 or 3 months. This make me feel like something is wrong with me then I have facebook friends and people in general asking are you married and when I answer no they are shocked as one man said he must be crazy cuz u r beautiful. Well if I'm so great and beautiful why the hell am I single and filled with so much hate that she will get bailed out and get all the support that comes with marriage while I'm busting my ass to stay above water. He doesn't even feel anything. His younger cousin got married last month and still no reaction. It sucks feeling this way I should be thankful but there are other problems in my life and for once like the Leona Lewis song I just wanna be happy. Even having a child hasn't brought happiness because like the saying goes no one is happy if mom isn't happy. It helps to no there are others that feel this way but my heart aches everyday from loneliness and hearing the great joy of her married makes me sick just want to vomit. I completely understand because I’m here searching for hating married people. I’m a single mom who is in her mid 20s beautiful but yet I am single. He says he isn’t ready for marriage and that’s been almost 2 yrs ago. Now there’s word that his lil sister is getting married after dating this guy for 2 or 3 months. This make me feel like something is wrong with me then I have facebook friends and people in general asking are you married and when I answer no they are shocked as one man said he must be crazy cuz u r beautiful. Well if I’m so great and beautiful why the hell am I single and filled with so much hate that she will get bailed out and get all the support that comes with marriage while I’m busting my ass to stay above water. He doesn’t even feel anything. His younger cousin got married last month and still no reaction. It sucks feeling this way I should be thankful but there are other problems in my life and for once like the Leona Lewis song I just wanna be happy. Even having a child hasn’t brought happiness because like the saying goes no one is happy if mom isn’t happy. It helps to no there are others that feel this way but my heart aches everyday from loneliness and hearing the great joy of her married makes me sick just want to vomit.

]]> Comment on Moving through the storm by susan http://mamadharma.net/2010/09/moving-through-the-storm/#comment-1552 susan Wed, 27 Jul 2011 00:47:30 +0000 http://mamadharma.net/?p=749#comment-1552 It's a fine line between feeling liberated about having no responisibility to another and being terrified about carrying all that responsibility alone. but yes, there are people out there only too glad to help if only we are humble enough to ask for it. hence, the day that my exhusband arrived at my house and found me struggling with (my) chainsaw, pruning a tree, and offered to do it for me - i said thank you graciously. But when the same peice of recycling, blown from the box, is still on my lawn after a week, I know, yes, I actually am the only one who's going to make things happen around here. It’s a fine line between feeling liberated about having no responisibility to another and being terrified about carrying all that responsibility alone. but yes, there are people out there only too glad to help if only we are humble enough to ask for it. hence, the day that my exhusband arrived at my house and found me struggling with (my) chainsaw, pruning a tree, and offered to do it for me - i said thank you graciously.
But when the same peice of recycling, blown from the box, is still on my lawn after a week, I know, yes, I actually am the only one who’s going to make things happen around here.

]]> Comment on Revisiting “I HATE Married People” by susan http://mamadharma.net/2011/01/revisiting-i-hate-married-people/#comment-1551 susan Wed, 27 Jul 2011 00:43:29 +0000 http://mamadharma.net/?p=789#comment-1551 yes! yes! and yes! I live in a small town. everyone, literally, in my social circle is married. It's tough and so I found a new hobby this year to get me óut there'. I've been single for 3 years, give or take one disastrous relationship for some months during that. The three things on my list? Kindness Energy Intelligence And if i had to add a fourth...Focus. Good luck to me:) yes! yes! and yes! I live in a small town. everyone, literally, in my social circle is married. It’s tough and so I found a new hobby this year to get me óut there’. I’ve been single for 3 years, give or take one disastrous relationship for some months during that.
The three things on my list?
Kindness
Energy
Intelligence
And if i had to add a fourth…Focus.

Good luck to me:)

]]> Comment on I HATE married people. by ghostbird http://mamadharma.net/2009/07/i-hate-married-people/#comment-1550 ghostbird Fri, 24 Jun 2011 18:36:19 +0000 http://mamadharma.net/?p=639#comment-1550 i started to hate my fren that are married. i dont think they all understand at all!! they always slam the door on my face!!! so that i dont bother their precious life! when i started to ignore them, they ask what is wrong. Even when i explain to them, they respond it with a lot of excuses, like : what can i do , i not only have my husband i have two family to take care of blah blah blah. FED UP! with them! i started to hate my fren that are married. i dont think they all understand at all!! they always slam the door on my face!!! so that i dont bother their precious life! when i started to ignore them, they ask what is wrong. Even when i explain to them, they respond it with a lot of excuses, like : what can i do , i not only have my husband i have two family to take care of blah blah blah.
FED UP! with them!

]]> Comment on Who needs discipline? by November’s Goodies http://mamadharma.net/2008/11/who-needs-discipline/#comment-1549 November’s Goodies Thu, 19 May 2011 15:41:38 +0000 http://mamadharma.net/?p=319#comment-1549 [...] from This Mama’s Dharma A wonderful, and painfully honest, post about what we can learn from our children. Who needs discipline? [...] [...] from This Mama’s Dharma A wonderful, and painfully honest, post about what we can learn from our children. Who needs discipline? [...]

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