Comments on: A new leaf http://mamadharma.net/2009/10/a-new-leaf/ one single mother. one spririted preschooler. oy -- what a life. Tue, 07 Feb 2012 10:29:02 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6 By: Liz http://mamadharma.net/2009/10/a-new-leaf/#comment-1221 Liz Tue, 27 Oct 2009 00:31:21 +0000 http://mamadharma.net/?p=681#comment-1221 I found your blog a few days ago and have been reading back as much much as I can, whenever I can. I love your honesty. I too have a lot of rage, with peaks and valleys as time goes by. My daughters Father is now married to one of the girls he cheated with, and they have 2 kids. Which brings his total to 4 daughters with 3 women. A real winner, yes he is. He lives in another state, and aside from present or two in the mail sent by the wife, he's not in my kids life whatsoever. She's 4 now, and is asking about her Dad and why doesn't she have one and says she misses him and even made up a story one night about him and a bumble bee. All of this is on her own. I give simple age appropriate answers and then I'm awake all night filled with rage towards him, and filled with sadness for her. I don't understand men and their lack of interest in their own children. Anyways, I found some comfort in your words, that feeling of "I'm not alone in how I feel". I hope these good changes that have happened, continue for you and your son. :o) I found your blog a few days ago and have been reading back as much much as I can, whenever I can. I love your honesty. I too have a lot of rage, with peaks and valleys as time goes by. My daughters Father is now married to one of the girls he cheated with, and they have 2 kids. Which brings his total to 4 daughters with 3 women. A real winner, yes he is. He lives in another state, and aside from present or two in the mail sent by the wife, he’s not in my kids life whatsoever.

She’s 4 now, and is asking about her Dad and why doesn’t she have one and says she misses him and even made up a story one night about him and a bumble bee. All of this is on her own. I give simple age appropriate answers and then I’m awake all night filled with rage towards him, and filled with sadness for her. I don’t understand men and their lack of interest in their own children.
Anyways, I found some comfort in your words, that feeling of “I’m not alone in how I feel”.
I hope these good changes that have happened, continue for you and your son. :o)

]]> By: Stacy (Mama-Om) http://mamadharma.net/2009/10/a-new-leaf/#comment-1220 Stacy (Mama-Om) Tue, 27 Oct 2009 00:09:22 +0000 http://mamadharma.net/?p=681#comment-1220 Thanks for the update. My loving thoughts are with you; I am glad you are enjoying this change of seasons. Thanks for the update. My loving thoughts are with you; I am glad you are enjoying this change of seasons.

]]> By: Mike http://mamadharma.net/2009/10/a-new-leaf/#comment-1218 Mike Mon, 26 Oct 2009 14:18:38 +0000 http://mamadharma.net/?p=681#comment-1218 Oh my son use to have a complete break down when I dropped him off. His whole deamenor still changes about 12 hours before it happens. Oh my son use to have a complete break down when I dropped him off. His whole deamenor still changes about 12 hours before it happens.

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